Today is a good day,walaupun awalnya tadi pake dibuat buru buru dan emosi jiwa -.- i decided to attend marriage talk by one of the greatest and funniest Pastor i've ever met! Pst Daniel Hanafi from Ifgf Gisi LA.Dikirain orangnya ngebosenin,soalnya uda setengah tua gitu hehehe...but i'm totally wrong!!!
Here are some important notes from his sermont this morning
*Dasar Pernikahan:
>Ibrani 13:4 "Hendaklah semua orang penuh hormat terhadap perkawinan..."
>Efesus 5:22 "Hai Isteri,tunduklah kepada suamimu seperti kepada Tuhan..."
>Efesus 5:24 "Hai suami,kasihilah isterimu sebagaimana Kristus telah mengasihi jemaat..."
>Marriage is about give and receive
>The foundation of marriage is unconditional love and acceptance
>Pernikahan itu sebuah institusi,you can't make your own rules.yang tidak sempurna akan dirubah semakin hari makin sempurna
>Seorang istri harus mendukung suami dengan kata kata yang membangun.sikap yang menghormati
>you need to figure out what kind of culture in your family
>Pria membutuhkan hormat,wanita membutuhkan kasih
>Pria bisa dimotivasi hanya dengan hormat
>Jangan mengomeli pria,karna dia merasa ngga dihormati
>Women confronts to connect
Men thinks that she confronts to control
Men withdraw to avoid conflict
Women think that he is unloving
>Marriage grows by grace
Be blessed!
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