Night Terrors

My 15months darling daughter had night terrors when she was around 11 months old (3 nights in a row) and recently,she had it again for 3 nights!  She woke up in the middle of the night screaming histerically. It took us  a while to figure out what was happening. Because she seemed to be awake but was having a full blown temper tantrum at 2am! and Nothing we did seemed to help. I started goggling about it and found out that it was night terrors.Seriously,it really freaked me out! i thought she's been possessed by a demon or ghost *touch wood* 


The least intervention possible worked the best for us. Although I have read that if the night terrors happen at the same time every night you can try waking them up before that time and then putting them back to sleep and after a few nights they shouldn't have the night terrors any more because you've broken the cycle. No idea if it works though! . And in my daughter's case, when she's overtired,she will most likely have night terrors during the night.So always make sure that she had enough sleeps during the day (she still having two naps) .Hopefully it won't happen again to her! *fingers crossed*. 

For new moms out there,who's wondering what is "night terrors" ? here are some explanation that i found : 
Like nightmares, night terrors in children are distressing and disruptive. But night terrors differ from nightmares in other key respects:
• Night terrors are NOT associated with REM sleep. Instead, they occur when a child is partially aroused from deep sleep--usually 1-2 hours after sleep onset (Moore et al 2006).
• During a night terror--which may last for 5-10 minutes--your child isn’t fully awake. But he will appear terrified, and he may cry, scream, or mumble. He may also move around or sleep walk. Because he isn’t really awake, he will be unaware of your presence or your attempts to soothe him (Moore et al 2006).
• After he awakens, your child probably won’t remember the experience. When kids do remember something about their experiences, they report memories of having to fight or flee from frightening monsters or other threats (Guilleminault et al 2003).
• Because they can involve sleepwalking and other forms of movement, night terrors in children can be physically dangerous
This may sound rather exotic if you haven't coped with night terrors before. But the condition is surprisingly common, particularly among very young children
- See more at: http://www.parentingscience.com/night-terrors-in-children.html#sthash.EgNHXCXr.dpuf

Good luck moms! They are a really difficult thing to go through and while they might not remember them, you sure do! 

Teething ohhhh teething!

So far,yang paling gua sebel itu kalo Olive teething. She starts teething when she was 4 months old and up till now! sisa 4 gigi geraham (second molars teeth).Every baby experiences teething differently.Some have virtually no symptoms, while other babies experience teething pain for months.


 Swollen, bulging gums

Bottom two! 

Here are Olivia's signed of teething that i noticed:

-Drooling ( a lot! sampe bisa basah baju kalo ga dipakein bib)
-Pulling her ears 
-Trying to bite, chew, and suck on everything she can get her hands on
-Difficulty sleeping
-Swollen, bulging gums
-Clingy
-A bit of runny nose ( some says,it is related to teething but i'm not too sure) 

How to ease the pain? cold teether, dummy a.k.a empeng , Bonjela teehing gel and Panadol. So far,those thing works for her. Terutama Bonjela teething gel! when she woke up in the middle of the night and crying, i always apply Bonjela teething gel and she will stop crying and back to sleep. I will not give her panadol unless she is in a great pain and cranky.

the "magic" teething gel

TAPI...sebulan belakangan Olive teething her first molars and canine teeth,5 teeth at the same time! ( Olive kalo teething pasti selalu borongan) dan Bonjela,Panadol uda ngga mempan sama sekali! mungkin karna gigi geraham lebih besar ukuran nya kali ya jadi lebih sakit. She woke up couple of times during the night and wouldn't stop crying! akhirnya cobain kasi dia Neurofen for baby. Stronger than Panadol for sure dan lumayan mendingan sih ngga terlalu bangun tiap jam. Jangan ditanya gimana tampang gua & alep waktu itu! uda kaya zombi -.- sleepless nights! 

Arrrgghhh..pokonya i hate teething phase deh!! kasian anak kecil ngga bisa ngomong sakit,cuma bisa nangis :( i hope teething-teething-an ini bisa cepet berlalu deh! pheewwww! 



Hello i'm back! and....i'm a MOM now! hehehe

Hello people! fast forward to Dec,2014! :) omg! terakhir posting taun 2012!! . A lot of things happened to us since then...let me update you guys with my life ya...

Currently i'm a full-time wife & MOM (yes,i'm a mom now!) and part-time of everything else. Our beautiful daughter,Olivia Grace Kurniaga was born on 23rd Sept 2013 in Perth,Australia.Since then,our life has turned upside down!! bener bener jungkir balik istilah nya hehehe..






dan setelah punya anak,gua jadi mami yang parno-an! -.-! takut anak sakit ato kenapa napa (maklum hidup merantau,jauh dari family), rasanya tuh tanggung jawab nya berat banget dititipin mahluk hidup kecil yang lucu nya amit-amit hehehe. Pokonya,we've been through ups and downs since Olive was born.But most important thing,we are so blessed and grateful to have her as our daughter. She is our pride and joy! She lights up the room wherever she goes and i'm glad that everybody loves her :) 


She is 15 months now and starts exploring the world! hahaha...


15 months old 

Warning: jangan bosen ya kalo starting from now on, i'll post more about parenting and motherhood. I love to share my experience as a new mom and would love to hear your thoughts as well. I'm still learning to be a good mom,so..fell free to drop your comments :) 

Dont' worry about others!

People hurt you,God will heal you.People humiliate you,God will magnify you.People judge you,God will justify you.

Going back home soon! :D

We'll be going back this weekend for our cousin's wedding! yayyy! kangen banget sama indo & makanan nya...too bad we only have 3 days >.< 

ohhhh....thou kita bakalan pulang cuma 3 days,barang bawaan kita sih ngga ngefek! 40kg donggg! haisss....(i always have a problem with this dari jaman mulai travelling dulu LOL ) never get enough! kita sih ngga bawa barang banyak..2 koper isinya cuma oleh2 n titipan mami2 semua deh -.-! Alep ampe amsiong liat barang bawaan yang tiap hari nambah terus...

eittsss...nga cuma dari perth-jkt doang yang 40kg dong! going back to perth 60kg (even worse!!! hahaha).hadeuuuhhh...tutup mata aja deh udah. namanya juga mami mami yaa...anak mantu tinggal jauh pasti segala macem dibawain semua :) mau nolak nya juga ngga tega,kan mereka gitu juga karna sayang sama kita..right? sooo  yah iya2 aja deh.plusss barang bawaan gua sendiri hihihi.yahhh kalo cewe2 mah ngerti lah yahhh pasti barang nya banyak :) 

ohhh well! forget about kiloan & barang bawaan deh :) i'm too excited to go back home walaupun cuma weekend hehehe...

see u guys very sOOoOoOoOoonnnnn

My Role Model

My Parents are definitely my role model.I'm blessed and grateful to have them in my life and no words could describe how much i love them...Thank you for showering us with your unconditional love mom and dad! i'm a proud daughter! :) xoxo



Dear Lizzy Neapolitan layouts

I'm a big fan of Dear Lizzy,she always comes up with awesome collections! like the Neapolitan line...i love the candy-shop colors and a diffused watercolor effect, ice cream cones and balloons.I couldn't get enough of it! i even treasure it that i don't feel like using it hahaha...well,here are my two layouts using the Neapolitan line:



USA 2011 Family Holiday


Mommy and Me